Eyeball Sex

Eyeball sex©



What is eyeball sex you may wonder? I’d read in various tantric books about brain orgasms and I could never figure out how to get to that state. It sounded fun – who wouldn’t like having orgasmic waves of pleasure running through your head-but it seemed like a mysterious state only well-trained yogis could get to after years of training. So, I let the books gather dust on my shelf. After a year or two, I decided to take the plunge and take an in-person tantra class. I discovered it’s really not that difficult for a ‘regular’ person to have an ecstatic experience. The class was about six hours and for those modest types, it was done fully clothed. I don’t think you necessarily need to spend that much time to get into the ecstatic state but it helps to spend time building up to it. This is what I did in a nutshell: We worked through the seven ‘basic’ chakras (I say basic because some philosophies say there are more than seven. That’s a complicated discussion and my point here is to keep it simple.) First, we did some dyad work, working in pairs. Dyad work involves talking through what your ideas are on questions such as ‘what is love?’, ‘what was your most memorable sexual experience?’. This process cleared some space for us to leave ‘the head’ and get in touch with the body. We’re trained in our culture to endlessly talk through and analyze everything, so people need a bit of time to fulfill the chattering habit before we focus on the body. We brought our attention to the first chakra at the perineum and did P.C. muscle contractions to start the kundalini moving up the spine. Then, we focused our awareness on our most memorable sexual experience, did some flirting, and noticed the energy moving up into the second chakra. The process simply involves ‘feeling’ the sexual energy move up the body. To move the energy more fully through the body and get it pumping, we did some simple yoga postures, specifically ‘cat-cow’, which involves flexing the spine up and down. Flexing the pelvis back and forth while standing also gets the energy flowing. As the energy moved past the second and third chakra, we said loving affirmations to one another to notice the heart chakra (fourth) opening and the energy flowing into the heart. Then, some tribal drumming music helped to get in a trance state as we chanted ‘ahhh’ to open up the throat (fifth) chakra. We finished with eye gazing where we focused our gaze softly on a partner, I was told that gazing at my partner with my focus on the left eye and to imagine the energy flowing out past the third eye (sixth chakra) and out the top of the head (seventh chakra). We gazed and continued with the tribal drumming music and the soft ‘ahhhs’. At that moment, I felt a surge of tingly sexual energy shoot through my head, I felt my consciousness bounce out of the top of my head, I felt my body swoon, my partner caught me so that I didn’t fall over and then my awareness came back into my body. It was really fun and worth the time to reach that state. I recommend you try it at least once in your life. It should be in the top 10 of the ‘1000 things to do before you die’ list.