Sexy Moms

I know there are the occasional jokes about MILFs, but I noticed on a subconscious level, women tend to give up their sexuality when they have kids. They don’t do it consciously, and if you ask them about it, they’d give you the ‘logical’ answer that ‘of course I’m still a sexual being’. I don’t think they buy it on a subconscious level. A lot of women go through a period of post-partum blues or angsty-anxiety. I believe this arises partly from the collective unconscious, where we tap into archetypes of what we’re allowed to be. Once you’re a mom, the range of ‘approved’ archetypes is restricted. Women feel that on a primal, body level. It shows in how they carry themselves, in that angst many moms feels before they find a safe place to be a mother. How to transcend that? It really starts with getting in touch with your body. Allowing yourself, as a mom to feel pleasure, and no, don’t always wait til everyone else is taken care of and you have two measly minutes before you fall into bed exhausted. Let yourself be selfish sometimes. A bit of selfishness is good, if you have no–self, you have no boundaries and people will unwittingly suck the life out of your batteries. Develop your own style as a sexy mom-add a new archetype to the collective unconscious. Change can happen with one person. If you need more healing on this issue, come join us at the next healing tele-party.